- Notice when he washes the dishes and offer to put things away. This is a great option. We get to hang out together and chat about Ken Wilbur and Ekhart Tolle and saxophones and Special Ed kids as I put things where I think they belong.
- When I walk through the kitchen and see something in the wrong place, put it where it belongs. This is a sort of good option.
- Live in a perpetual "Easter Egg Hunt" as I frantically search for the spoon to stir the beans before they burn and lose my temper when I burn my hand pulling the biscuits out of the oven because the oven mitt has gone wandering again and all I can find quickly is a wet washcloth which doesn't really work. This is probably the worst option and yet it is the one I "fall back on" continually.